We are commanded to submit to them. Readers, you know me-ish: Neither am I entirely sure why I wanted to post this. Hi, just messaging you out of curiosity. If the couple is already lying in bed, then before subsequent sex sessions, he will just lie face down on the bed while she spanks him. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Imagine if he allowed you to continue down the path of defiance and finally let you know how he felt when he served you divorce papers.
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You can also more easily negotiate rules when you know what they are. Spanking your woman, even if she has given overall consent, is not easy. You seem to be just focusing on the spanking, without looking at the big picture of what your husband is trying to do for you through loving discipline. The two most important things for the HOH to remember are to firstly, try and set aside a regular time, so that the woman is routinely disciplined at the same time and day. She made the decision that she wanted to be pulled into line if her husband deemed necessary and if need be punished.
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I'm pretty sure most of his friends know whats going on, and I think he enjoys embarrassing the hell out of me, which in its self can be a very effective punishment. My wife is also old school and would probably describe herself as a wife who submits to her husband's authority but she is in no way subjugated. The woman can also use the Maintenance Calculator on the LDD site which works out the maths and leaves an encouraging comment after each calculation. Hence, the woman changes shape, she transforms, she completely moves from a negative behaviour and attitude into a positive one. Check out the sample domestic discipline contract by Mischief in May here. When I speak to her now as I did then, she laughs a little and says it is not believeable.
If she is spanked less than is required then non-submissive problems and negative attitudes can occur. However, a written domestic discipline contract both enables you and your man to consent while serving as a reminder of your rule, so there are no misunderstandings. It was far cheaper than a spanking paddle would have been, but looked just as effective. Still, it is an interesting look at a dynamic that is similar to DD, and even with some flaws it is an enjoyable watch. Many women have written in their blogs about how much it helps them get through the worst of it.